A move can be unsettling to the children, as well as to you; and you have to look at your economic situation as well to see if a move would upset that.
Also, examine any other motives you may have for this move, and only you would know what they were; I cannot "pick" them out of thin air.
Each person must do what's best or themselves; the decision, ultimately, is up to you.
I hope that worked. To speak to this above, when I really think about it honestly....I can not bare to watch him prance around with other woman, or just one woman. To have my children around that. They are too young. We are mandated in this State of ours to attend a Divorce Class and as a part of the class they shared with the both of us that a parent should NEVER have the children around another person with whom they show affections to before a years time.
I just don't know if he could do that. I don't want my kids to see that, they cry as it is now always praying to God to please heal Daddys heart, give him new eyes to see you again and bring him home, (breaks my heart)
SO, the mother in me wants to protect them from being hurt..I also don't want to DEAL with it and all the emotions that go with it..I need to focus ON ME and work ON ME and NOT always fight the daily battle in my head about HIM HIM HIM.... Always waiting everyday for his change in plans, he is ALWAYS sick and isnt available to them, etc....
I do believe he is reaping what he has already sown, bills are piling up on him..I have always worked, have always made a better living, so with him wanting to do this it has caused him to see just HOW expensive it will be... and he is always ILL....he can't catch a break he says...Im like... "DUH" but I just giggle silently on the inside and pray for him...
I have to say, I am almost 40 myself and for a woman as young as 43! WOW....do you have an abundance of knowledge and inner strength and how GOD has Blessed you! I too hope and pray someday that God will resinate in me as HE does in you! I grow more and more each day... I thank God for being my rock and my soft place to fall... What a BLESSING you are to so many of us!
Thank you for checking in on us as often as you do. I appreciate
