Wow... I really thank you all for your input.. Truly.. It took me awhile to read all of it, but really great things.. I hope others that are struggling as I am have a chance to view this thread. Its amazing how I feel that I too was a p*ssy.. I did everything I could and let her walk all over me. I was the "nice" guy. I Usually always said, "what ever you want is fine by me." I know that I dont need to be an a$$ about it now, but really turn it around and become the "man" I used to be. The one that attracted her to me in the first place. I need to regain that respect back from her.. Its tough to do of course. We dont do much together right now, so I'm trying to figure out some things that I can do to win the respect back.
Start by winning your own self-respect back, don't look at it from the point of view how do I win my respect back from her, that won't work, you'll be chasing your tail trying to figure out how to make her respect you again.
Start by respecting you, setting boundaries, standing up for yourself when necessary - what she does is irrelevant as long as you have your self-esteem and self-respect back, it won't matter how she feels about you, you won't be seeking her approval anymore and that's when she'll begin to respect you.
