one other thing - since my W didn't really know what she wanted outside of having me pay her if she moves out, we 'wasted' a lot of time in mediation appointments establishing our goals/expectations of the mediation process. In the end, I have gotten what I wanted out of it so far but we could have gotten to this point with less time in front of the mediator but the tension level was high between us and we were just butting heads.

Things have calmed down now, however, and I am not sure what she is going to do.


ME/XW:47
S21, D19, S15, S14
M:21 T:26
W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12
W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline