I am really having a hard time understanding what you are doing.
Do you *really* get how serious this situation is? You are about to enter into a custody agreement with a woman you are not even legally married to. You are about to enter into a custody agreement with a woman that you cannot even sit through ONE parenting class with. You are about to enter into a custody agreement with a woman AFTER you stormed her house to confront her and her BF. Do you realize this is not a game?
Clearly you have not yet mastered the ability to refrain from R's talks, NOT pursue and quite simply leave things be.
Why do you keep spending time with this woman when you know damn well you are unable to control yourself? Don't say it is for your daughter because it is not. Your daughter is the excuse you use to spend time with your EX. You get plenty of one on one time w/your daughter.
You are digging your own grave as far as custody goes and any chance of having *any* sort of R with your EX.
