Crap, CW, I CANNOT believe he went on and filed! I was really hoping he wouldn't, but sometimes, I guess you have to let things "play out" to see where everything stands afterward.
Don't let this get you down; you hold that head high, Sweetie...if he insists on going on with this, and everything else he's up to...he's going to LOSE the best thing he ever had!
LR is right; if your friends speak to your husband; that is out of your hands. It's unknown whether it will do any good or not.
Diamond Girl also has a point..everything happens for a reason.
The damage, such as it is, can't get much worse..depends on how you look at it.
LOL @ Recognizing Signs from God for Dummies...sorry, can't write that one..sometimes, even I need help recognizing some of the signs from Him, as He is not always crystal clear with me, and I've served Him a LONG time. Some things that are sent from Him, need to be thought, or even talked out to arrive at a clear answer; and I understand you're not that far along, yet, and He does too.
Hang in there, Sweetie; I'm with you, praying for the Lord to help you understand the signs He sends when He sends them.
Hey, we need all the help we can get.
Remember, we each DO have the answers within, we have to learn how to access those; it doesn't come naturally. Sometimes it involves talking things out with someone you trust that can help you sort things out; a sounding board, if you will.
Sometimes when several people are together talking, like here, answers can be found in more than one post.
Catch you later on; you seem to be doing fine, in spite of what's happening.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.