The thing is that you need to make the most of the times you do see W. You need to be upbeat, positive, etc. You always try to avoid her. You will have to deal with being around her the rest of your lives so you need to come up with a strategy of being around her without getting down, which is something you had problems with when just separated. You really to work on focusing on just you.
It is ok when something comes up like W gives you the wish list (in my case H is about to decide where to live) or something similar happens to think about her and possibilities, but you haven't heard anything new in a while so during that time use it to focus on you and the girls.
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89
