Questions for The DB'ing Pros - Help!

[neversaydie63]

Thanks Cesco,

I am just not sure how to proceed now --- do I do what the DC counselor said to do and work on or do I just go dark?? Since we had communication problems in or R, DC counselor told me to call her everyday, work on being upbeat and give her details as to were I am going and what I am doing (yea, I know, totally opposite of what the DB book tells you - that was part of my problem)

Have not talked to her or called her since she drove out of here on Monday night. Changed the locks at my house yesterday, contacted the attorney today. I still want it to work (I think) but I am preparing myself for what I see as an inevitable future w/o her. For now, I am going to remain dark other than to drop the dog off tomorrow before I hit the slopes this coming weekend with some buds!

Thanks

NSD