I did read your post and am sorry to hear of your setback. I want to tell you again how much I respect you and how you are conducting yourself through this mess. My W and I are still living together and I am still with my kids. I like to think I am doing OK, but if she decides to leave, I guess I will have to find some strength that I don't know I have right now. I have gotten over my clingy, pressuring mode and do feel better even when she is in her moods. I still find myself looking for response from her. In the DR book, it says to monitor your progress but I have yet to grasp exactly how to do that. I know things won't change overnight, baby steps, a marathon not a sprint, etc... You know? Anyway, good luck to you and I will keep up with you and offer my support, whatever it's worth. You are not alone.
