The only person I have adviced to say or do anything is my friend that he talks to. The rest of the family/friends that I have told, I have not advocated for anyone else to say or do anything. And of course his whole family seems to want to enable him. They don't approve of the A, but they don't want to drive him away either.
I have decided that I am no longer going to keep my mouth shut to protect my H. If someone asks what is going on with us, I'm telling them what I know.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10