Like me and the rest of the men on here, one of the most frustrating aspects of DBing is our desire to see progress, and often times, immediate progress. I think you have to fight that desire/expectation because it leads to more frustration.
You are right Pigskin. Think of it in terms of situps. You do not wake up one day and immediately start doing 800 situps a day. You start of small and each day work at it a little harder. Eventually you find that you can do it several times a day. Eventually you realize you are doing them without planning or thinking about them.
Try it. 600 situps a day is analogous to divorce busting. It takes core strength. Dedication. Will power to continue. The progress is measured internally not by any measure of what someone else feels or thinks about you.