Just to kind of echo what others have mentioned for a second: Although it may be a non-issue now, the kids will eventually be impacted highly by everything. I requested many of times with (x)W to please be considerate of them and their feelings as they will know in due time what really transpired. Of course, those requests fell upon non-listening ears when she was in 100% WAS mode and unfortunately, the damage is done. Our S11, dispite the fact that we are reconcilling and putting things back on track, carries A LOT of resentment for (x)W and that, even through the deplorable things she has done, breaks my heart to see and it's going to take a long time to fix.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11