ok question everyone or anyone willing to give advice. I need to give my husbands Mom some money (I sold something for her on ebay). She loves me and I would like to see her to give her the money. However, I am thinking I should maybe avoid her also. In a normal marriage I would just ask my husband to drop the check off to her when he visited next..... but this isn't a normal marriage at the moment that I am aware of. So what should I do.
Should I call her and ask if I can drop it by (when I know my husband won't be there), should I mail it to her and avoid her also? HELP... don't know what to do. I would actually like to stop by and see her and talk with her, but I feel this is probably pursuing through his Mom.
Thoughts?
M 35, husband 35 M 10 Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count Home 12/2010-present
