Yes - I'm sure she's trying to see how he thinks he can do this without filing.....because he will have to file. That is very clear. My L explained to me that no matter what, or how the actual settlement is determined, the first thing that has to happen is that someone has to file---and it won't be me. I know that he wants her to do the work for him.


Me 45
M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08
D 18, D 14, S 12