Good morning sage ~ What a great thread title! Your positives are wonderful again! It's great that you didn't feel as nervous and were able to listen and talk with your H about money decisions and such. You are inspiring!
Mockers2
"Somehow we survive, and tenderness frustrated does not wither." Dennis Brutus, South African poet
"That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
Friedrich Nietzsche
Sage, Can you pop over to my thread and tell me what you think about last night? Am I over analytical? It depresses me when things go well... I become even more impatient for the whole pie.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
1. when h got home from school last night he seemed really interested in hearing about how I was, what I was up to. He said "tell me two interesting things that happened to you today" I like how he shook up the conversation!
2. I mentioned that the dr. had left me a msg asking me to call about some recent tests...I was a little worried because of the "tone" of her voice (ASSumptions!). He was supportive and asked me to call him today to let him know how it goes with her. (I just spoke to her...everything is FINE).
3. h had a huge paper due today. He's been working his butt off on it. He asked me to read it and comment. I had some suggested edits but was concerned about offering them up (seem too controlling, too critical, etc) but he was really appreciative and has actually asked me to read it a few more times for more comments.
He was up 'til 2am this morning working on it (after being at school until 10pm!). What a hard worker!!!
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.