Interesting, you agree with Penny on most other points. ah well, I guess that just makes for interesting discussion...

Is tehre a specific reasoning as to why you would opt to not advocate your family or their family pressuring spouses to end their affairs?

Is it becuase you aren't sure how it will turn out?

I can't see mb28's husband filing for a divorce becaus his family is pressuring him about cheating on her... I just can't see that happening... if anything I can see him having a HUGE FIGHT with OW about it...