Talked to Dotty Mon. nite. She seems to think things are going well. I need to fine tune some things and be patient. I was doing good at being patient but find myself getting anxious and wanting some visible results. After I told her what had been going on lately, she pointed out some things in W actions that she would consider positive progress. I hope she is right.
W had school board meeting Mon. and got home at 10:00. This is second month in a row she has not gone out afterwards. She has still been crabby. Don't know why, she won't say and I know not to ask. She did mention we would have to take S3 to daycare a couple days a week because he mom couldn't watch him anymore. Her dad just retired and they want to travel. She's worried about money now. Wasn't a big deal when she wanted to go drinking and drive all over the place for v'ball and practice every night. She now gets a sitter to watch kids for practice since S3 broken collarbone, every night for two or three hours.
Should I still keep quiet? I know she won't listen or hear me right now. Does it sound like she is slowly realizing she can't do it ALL? We have four small kids and live in the country and everything is a drive. We just can't afford all of this.
