Well it is all complicated....I did give hiim the name of my L after he asked the second time......and I'm sure she got a good laugh at the "without a formal court filing" part of his e-mail. All of our expenses are still joint----so I paid the retainer out of joint monies.......She's clear on what I want and how I want to proceed.
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12