How did he get the name of your L? I remember you saying he asked for it, but I didn't know you told him. I sure don't like the fact that he is e-mailing your L and trying to manipulate the situation. I guess though if he is set on representing himself then he will have to communicate directly with your L. Hmmm, how can one get divorced without a court filing? Didn't know that it was possible.
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