I don't know about him reaching out...really I just don't see that right now but I know I have to be receptive (for his sake) so he can open up - if he chooses to
I don't think anything your H does will prove that he is reaching out. I'm not sure what huge falling star sign you are looking for.
your not going to get something enormous, you are going to get baby steps, and the steps he is taking are larger steps than most people see here.
you are self prophesying yourself into destruction. what you believe is going to come true, because what you believe has a HUGE impact on how you act towards him and what you do.
why don't you start pretending that when he comes home, he is wanting more time with you, when he helps you put together a desk, he is wanting to HELP YOU, when he wants a glass of wine, he is enjoying your company.
???? your killing me here.
(((luv)))
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
