I do tend to talk too much and he knows that. In the past I have tried to state boundaries and would flip flop. Like you said he is gone and now I have to let my actions speak for themselves.
I just sent my last test stating what you said about if he doesn't stop contact with her I do not want him in my life anymore. He continues to deny he is talking to anyone.
Need to get refocused on me and my girls.
me 32 H 34 together since 92 married 01 bomb 3/08 s 3/08