I forgave my H the day I figured out he slept with her. You don't have to tell him you forgive him, you forgive him in God presence. Like Jesus did on the cross.."father forgive them, for they know not what they do".
you must lift this burden off of you, and part of that is focusing yourself on God and losing your expectations of H, and becoming the best luv you can be.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
