Quote:
I see the value of making goals but if I "want WH to come over early" and he doesn't but turns out he starts sending me longer texts, then does it mean that he isn't responding to me because he didn't come over early? see what I mean?


your most likely not going to get all of your goals met, but just having some of them met are a good thing. him texting you more is definitely a good thing! So just because he doesn't do something on your list, doesn't mean your going in the wrong direction...and I agree with mind on that too, it's if he stays later, not comes earlier that I would look at.

Quote:
I will not be discouraged-


GOOD FOR YOU!!! and the clothes comment, he may just be trying to be nice so that you can have more room if he knows your getting rid of some things. Don't take too much into that, he could have asked for it all back and IMHO that would have been worse.

hey, what type of GAL things have you been doing? and things to better yourself? you mentioned cooking and cleaning house better (have you rearranged furniture, or painted, or changed things up? that's a great thing to do. what hobbies are you doing for yourself? spring break is coming up, you should be off right?? any plans??


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."