I will crack the book open if tha'ts one you are interested in... I just typed out the whole page from the book is all... she does mention R talk and the hazzards elsewhere in the book, but it didn't make that top five list she put in teh book...
I do suspect its because she's not fully against R talk if its constructive and the spouse initiates it
If its just negative crap about divorce and separation, I would reccomend just getting up and walking away
If they press the matter you just say - I made a commitment and I will NOT engage in this kind of conversation.. its against everything I promised myself and everything I promised you.
