You just need to KNOW what their MESSAGE will be

It should be something that includes this :

1. You cheat on your wife and family?
2. You lie and sneak around for months and leave your wife to look after two children whlie you have some sleazy affair?
3. You NOW are threatening to DIVORCE your family?
4. You think divorcing your family is gonig to make a creepy affair look BETTER?
5. If you divorce that woman and those children I will NEVER speak to you again.
6. You should be ashamed of yourself, go apologize to your wife and END your AFFAIR

It is important that in the message if they mention divorce, they describe it as divorcing a family, not just YOU.. divorce affects EVERYONE not just HIM...

HE doens't realise that, he thinks divorcing you will just make HIM feel better.. it is just an escalated affair

Affairs are about making your spouse feel worse and YOU feel better
Divorce is about making your spouse feel worse and YOU feel better

Its the same thing see?

If THAT is what they will say on on the phone then i say go for it...

Why not tell your family members to ask Husband for the number of this woman he's "just friends" with.. why don't they just ask him? Is he AFRAID to give the number out for some reason?

I woudl tell them to blast him for the # first.. if he wont give it out, THEN you give it teo them

So if your husband says anything, you just tell him they pressured you for the phone number after they heard you were going to divorce yoru family.

Ha ha

Last edited by Allen A; 03/10/10 04:50 PM.