I have been 'going dark' for about 4 weeks now, and it DOES get better. I, too, thought this is EXACTLY what my H wanted.
What I didn't realize was, little by little, the more time I spend on GALing the more I realize 'I am a pretty darn good person' and it is my H's CHOICE to be who he is. I cannot make him into someone he doesn't want to be; I can only try to better myself! And in the long term, if he chooses to change, that is even better!!
Keep up the good work!
Hopefully you'll get someone with more experience to help guide you.....gg
M55 H55 my D31 H D30 1st met her when she was 25 M 22yrs...2nd for me, 1st for H OW 2005 mother of H daughter, came back to introduce D 1bomb 6/05 2bomb 7/08 3bomb 2/10 moved up north
