I do have her phone # and email. My cousin has wanted to call her and keeps asking when I will give her permission to do it. I'm passive when it comes to conflict, so I've not allowed anyone to do it. Plus up until now, I've been so worried about making my poor H even more mad at me. However, I no longer care what he thinks about what I do.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10