I am thinking of your Dad as he goes through this. I know it is difficult but stay as supportive and as upbeat as you can around him.
Sounds as if things with H are getting a bit calmer, which I think benefits you both. Whenever you need to remember that look at the picture from your birthday. the one where you are both laughing and touching each other.
hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Kalni, your Dad is in my thoughts hand-in-hand with ones for my Dad. You are too.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
Kalni, I like how you dealt with the explosions issue. I hope that he will follow through.
All the tiny little things that make up a marriage...it seems like they are much more a part of piecing than the big revelations...because they are actions.
I wish you well in witnessing your dad going through chemo. It's so hard watching the ones that we love go through difficult experiences. I wish your dad and your family well too.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
Pisces By Rick Levine You may feel as if you've exhausted your magic, but nothing is further from the truth. You are at a crucial turning point today as Mars turns direct in your 6th House of Work. Your dreams continue to be bigger than life, yet day-by-day they will seem to inch away from the night and out into the light of day. Keep the faith; you are closer to success than you realize.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Hugs for your dad and your family K. Chemo is so difficult to watch. You're a strong woman and that strength will get you to the other side of this step.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
I talked to H's xBIL today. I ended up frustrated and outraged with H's family again and the way they are so dysfunctional in communicating. We had an argument about it but didnt go bad...
hey Maria, animated discussions are fine but I don't think you are going to change you H's family and how they communicate at this stage. Concentrate on the communication closer to home.
Hug you parents. They need you. Channel your energy. You are going to need to stay positive in the months ahead.
