You are MORE than good enough. You are obviously an exceptional mother. Just look how much the kids all want to stay with you and not xh. That should tell the tale.
Yes, they will put you under a bit of a microscope, but seriously, they aren't going to take kids out of a home where they want to be unless it is truly unsafe. You aren't a hoarder, you don't live in filth, you do the very best with what you have and you do lots of special things with them. What more could anyone expect? You are a loving parent and it's natural to worry but look at your accomplishments.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!