I agree with you - this pretty much needs to be black and white, otherwise he most definitely will drag this on forever. It's not like you're pushing him last minute either - he's had plenty of time now (a year!) to figure out what he wants with you. Hopefully he's doing a lot of thinking during this "quiet time" right now. I think this weekend is really going to be a reality check for H if it gets to the point where all his stuff ends up at his parents house! But at this point, as curious as you are, there really is no point to contact him. He knows what he needs to do now. It would have been nice if he would give you the heads up one way or another, but in reality, you don't have to do anything (the move) until the weekend. It is hard though and it's still a difficult road ahead whichever way it goes. Luckily, no matter what, you have S, and that makes it that much easier. Who can resist a "you're beautiful, mommy". Aww, so cute. =)
The life of a single mom, huh? haha. Yeah, I go to bed at 9 too. I feel silly when I tell people that, but hey, we're working single moms! I get up at 5:20 so I can get ready before S gets up at 6:30, since he gets himself into trouble too easily!
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
