How do I act?

[Cautious]

I agree, you should have waited longer, but it's easy to get over excited. You'll remember next time... but it may be agony.

Just remember that there is NOTHING pressing enough to write to him unless the house burns down. Even then... well, look how long it took him to ask you about the earthquake.

I think you did SO good, meghunny, but try not to get ahead of yourself. Remember this is all baby steps and getting too excited will make him feel like you're right where he wants you - and scare him back into D mode.

It's a victory, nonetheless, and we're all more than happy to celebrate it with you. But keep your patience, this is going to take some time.

Congratulations and good luck!