I have to think about this, but "wanting H to come over early" seems like an odd goal. But, hey, it's not my goal!!! My thinking is, that, if he is expected at a specific time, then I'm sure he shows up then, but when he's been there, around you, and COULD linger longer, it's an easier extension of time, because he knows what's going on in the house then, if you're welcoming to him staying, etc...
Just my thoughts!!!
You're doing great, girl!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
