seperated a year

[Greek]

I sometimes get the impression he wants to be friends. For the last month or so we have been talking as friends but most contact has been made by me. He would talk about things that were going on with him and his life neer asking about me unless he knew I was going out then it was to make comments about "I hope he makes you happy". Then after a week of friendly chat no R talk whats so ever he would say things like I'm not coming back home nothing has changed.

What do you want? Do you want to be his W? Do you want the same M your had before or a better one? These are important questions to answer. Get busy mulling that over.

I'm to the point that nothing I have done has worked so I'm giving NC a true chance and working on myself. I can say I do feel better and in control for the first time in a year.

Working on yourself - growing through this calamity - is the best thing for you to do now. It's what you MUST do, actually, b/c if you don't whether you reconcile with Mr. Hanging In There or move on to the next man, you'll be faced with the same matters at hand now.

Grow.

Greek

PS - Don't just HANG in there. STAND TALL.