Mountaintop,

I know I am taking it day by day, but the results have been fantastic so far.

W is very open and communicating, she is allowing some wonderful intimacy (slowly moving ahead on that).

Hasn't told me she loves me yet, but I believe with continued hard work she will.

I'm a love language verbal and physical, she is more acts of service.

Do you mind my asking what nationality is your W?

TBL now equals "Toward Better Love"
M-44 W-42; 2 kids; married 11 years
1st bomb 10-08, reconcile 12-08
2nd bomb 8-09, moving toward reconcile 3-7-10