Broken,
I too feel like I may be falling into a friend trap that while I would still enjoy having the contact with H. I don't want to get stuck in this trap. I have been seperated a year now. The last 5 or 6 months my H has said he isnt coming home. There is an emotional affair that I have exposed. He still contacts her.

You are getting great advice here. Hang in there and do whats right for you.

Puppy and Greek if you have time could you check out my post -seperated for a year-

me 32
H 34
together since 92
married 01
bomb 3/08
s 3/08