I see the value of making goals but if I "want WH to come over early" and he doesn't but turns out he starts sending me longer texts, then does it mean that he isn't responding to me because he didn't come over early? see what I mean?
HIS LLs* are acts of service, affection, admiration, so I think my goals should be connected to that.
IF WH is responding to my actions, THEN he will show in the following ways... goals related to increase of his LLs.
What do you think???
and mine are affection and conversation and admiration.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004