Seen H last night for just a few minutes when I got home from school. I walked in and didn't say a word to him, just went about my business getting ready for bed. As he was leaving he said "See ya", I didn't reply, so he said "Hey, see ya later" I just said "Uha".

In the middle of the night I get a text from his mom, saying that my H's sister is planning on going back to her abusive H. And then his other sister called me to tell me how upset she was about the one sister going back. Then she started to ask me about what was going on with me and my H. I told her everything I know about this OW, and all the evidence I had that pointed to an A. She was shocked and so mad at her brother. When we first split up, she is the sister that was totally on my H's side. And saying there is no way her brother would ever cheat. Well now she believes he is cheating. The nice thing about exposing to her, is that she is the big mouth in the family. So I'm sure she will be on the phone today telling everyone what I told her.

I am such an angry state right, I want NOTHING to do with my H. He is still talking to OW and going and seeing her every night.

My D has an appt today to get a tooth pulled. And instead of me calling my H to let him know, I told MIL to tell him.

Other then the few min last night, this will be day 2 of NC.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10