Absolutely, don't stoop to her low blow level. I don't know that I'd include the "unattractive" part, though. Could easily be twisted into a sexual harrassment accusation, should she actually decide to take that road out of anger.

maynard, I'm glad you're feeling awesome today. The warm weather is definitely helping us all GAL. I'm warming up for a LOT of putt putt in the future, as I no-so-secretly love golf. Challenged my HS senior cousin and now he's coming in town for a round.

I hope you have one heck of a birthday weekend, and remember I'm here to talk... like a million times per day, since offering advice seems to be keeping me "up" at the moment. Plus, my sitch is somewhat keeping me up at night, unfortunately.


Me: 26
Ex: 27
Son: 5

Divorced: 3/2010
Each day is another opportunity to do it right.