I also have some other question. What works best. We seem to be getting along very well and I go not want to jepordize that but at the same time not seem as though I am just waiting around for her. Right now I go to dinner with our Son 2 nights a week without her. I am back to school 1 night , and on the weekends it is a toss up. Like last weekend we were in the same room maybe a total of 4 hours. Is that enough, or do I need to do more? Other nights I do call and ask what we are doing for dinner or what is gonig on that night. Should I stop calling at all and see if she calls me? Or do I even mess with what is goign on right now? We do not talk about the relationship much if at all.

I feel like I failed a test in school and I know that it will take at least 2 A's on the next couple tests to get up to a B. Unfair how easy it is to fall out of favor and how difficult it is to recover what you once had. But that's life I guess.