Hi Luv,
I'm not as up on your sitch as I would like to be... so this might be totally out of left field...

What are you doing to better your communication? Seems the running theme is that needs improvement for both of you - but what are you doing about it??

Patience is tough, he may not want to acknowledge his hurt toward you until he feels safe in that. It's up to you to decide if you want to give him the safety - nothing says you have to - but you need to decide soon. He seems to be reaching out, testing the waters, seeing if you are receptive. This might be a small window and its up to you to decide if you want to let it close.

You've put in the time and the effort, make sure you get what you want out of this. Make sure you keep doing what works!!!


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