I don't recommend talking about it with anyone. Why? Because other than here, most people are to close to the situation. So their opinions become a distraction...they mean well, but in the end all conversations end up revolving around the situation instead of natural banter.
It does seem counter-intuitive to step away from your support network....but it also helps you stand on your own. It also pulls unneeded pressure off of your husband....he has enough of that already.
