K I dont know what happens to them MY xh said the same he said the D was mutual..I said no it was not mutual you wanted it, I didnt I believe my xh conveniently made up stuff in his mind to avaoid dealing with what was maybe that is the way they can deal with the hurt they created after a time I wonder if all the lies they tell themselves become the truth for them, an they live in a delusional state confused to what is real and not mental illness is probably much the same peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow