An accusation leveled with frightening procedures inflicted on your children while the finger of blame is pointed like God's finger toward you would rattle anyone.
Alright.. it had its effect. It scared the bejesus out of you.
What are your next steps? Goodness knows that being intimidated and withdrawing is one I know well. However.. let's break this down.
The basement of home flooded two years ago.
Was their father living there at the time? Was he aware of the incident? Do you have any emails, journaling, etc. that speak of the incident and what you did? Write down everything you remember of this. Bureaucracies love paper.
Who can you turn to?
Inform your lawyer who is undoubtably aware of what tactics are used in divorce and how to address them.
Ask the social worker at the school, a friend with knowledge, your counselor how this procedure is handled. Many times they have to follow protocol when a complaint is filed.
Ms. kat.. you're in the right. You did what was right two years ago. Do what is right now. Because as I am continually reminded my greatest enemy is my own fears.
