I agree w/ the above- you are doing a great job, remember there will be alot of uncertainty from here on out and most everything will be in her time, not yours.
This is your sitch to blow at this point...I am incredibly envious of you right now.
Do not press, pressure, etc...Remember Allens description of a loving/concerned father- she is fragile right now, any pressure (overt, covert, body language, tone, stares, etc.) will get her flighty...Just be and set a great example for calm, and confident, and security...
