After the 2nd time I found the A was still carrying on..he referred to the OW as his girlfriend. what? You are a married man...you cannot have a girlfriend!!!! High school is right..my H would have the OW copy him on emails sent to her xbf because he thought she was lying to him. The OW ended up inviting her xbf to an amusement park with her so that he would carry her bags. My H didn't talk to her for a few days. This is a mature relationship.
Don't let him bait you. If he is going to file..he is going to file. There is no need to throw it in your face unless he is looking for a reaction. Don't give him one. I sometimes felt that my H was waiting for me to just throw in the towel so that he can continue on with life and A without feeling like he made a decision he will regret later on. It was MY decision instead.
It doesn't sound like your H is done. If he was done..he would just be done.. no need for your permission or to even discuss it with you.
On my post..I mentioned something about my H hurting me.. and one of the responses was 'Don't let him hurt you'. You can have control over this.
