Nothing exciting happened except we started talking about buying furniture for my kid's room and agreed I will take Thursday off because the journalists strike so we can be together. He says he intents to clean our BrBq... (So future plans? LOL!!)
I let him rest, watch TV, he invited me to make our today's sandwiches toegther, told me he had washed mine and the kid's shoes that I had kept on the veranda after tree planting (AOS-LOL) and kept in mind that my goal is to make him feel safe. It's the only way I get what I need as well...
He said every week he will be coming home early at least one night if not two. (keeping his promises?)
We talked about him yelling to my son and how he needs to control that. He was really upset about it feeling guilty and disappointed in himself.I validated and listened to him and cared but also was clear he needs to DEAL with it. I told him he needs to find a therapist if he cant control it. I told him his yelling/explosions are something we talked about way back, when we first started dating and by avoiding it he doesnt solve it.
My dad starts chemo next Thursday. I dont talk about it much but it REALLY bothers me. K
