MLC, H and me

[SoftHeart]

SA: "they will make up their own stories about your sitch anyway"
Amen!

I find that my WAS has completely rewritten our history and is actively seeking out old guy friends who never even knew us during out time together...the better to validate their story and their actions...

confusedwife: Worrying about what others think & say only takes your focus off of YOU...same goes for worrying about what he does & says...

CW: "I am thankful that I don't seem to have all the drama that many of these posters seem to have with their spouses! Sometimes I wish that we had more contact but see from reading other's posts that the n/c thing seems to be a good thing!"
You are indeed lucky that the drama in your sitch is minimized...mine has been full throttle since last spring (with a few pauses when he fought it and 'came back' here & there until the ultimate WAS). It's been at such a fever pitch lately that we both agreed to NC until the end of the month yeasterday. Think of it as giving yourself time to breathe, work on YOU, and do the things that you want/need to do (like remove the wallpaper, cry when you need to, connect with friends and family and GAL). That's what I'm trying to do and it seems to be lessening the pain a bit...

SH