How do I act?

[Surviving03]

good point... it sucks that we have to "play games" with our spouses to get them to want to be with us again... at times i just feel like this is so ridiculous! I am young, only been married a few years, it shouldnt be this tough! But then I remember, that if we both have that attitude (as he does now) then we will never make it and no marriage would if people thought like that. I made a commitment and I love him and I KNOW that we just werent working at our marriage and if we did, we could be incredibly happy. But most imporantly, if this journey does end in divorce, I can hold my head up high knowing that I did all that I could to make it work from my end. And that would be a victory for me, and a loss for him.