Well folks I am well and truly shocked now, ex picked son up for tea and onto rugby training last night, son was late back but just texted me and let me know he was ok just sorting something out, when he came home he ran upstairs and hid something, well curiosity kills the cat so to speak so I have snooped, and ex as been shopping with son after rugby to buy me a mothers day card and present, I am in total shock, ex always used to take son shopping for cards and presents for me, but as soon as he walked he didnt even give son money to buy me a card, so my mother took the job on, well I suppose it is an improvement, let the calmness and niceness last and improve I say x