Lost1234, I will be coming this way later today..I've been saying tomorrow, but it is already that.
Will post my thoughts on you, I promise. I will have to do some reading before I post, though, so be patient with me.
Be good to yourself.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.