If I don't agree to what H wants, he's going to want me to go with him to the psychologist to do the coparenting plan.
I just saw this- Flowmom, going to the psychologist could work in your favor! I mean it is a way to get what is best for the kids without you being the one to say it...an objective party.
IN FACT, I seriously, as a child advocate, recommend that YOU tell Flowdad that you want to set this up with the psychologist! Like
"you know, I was thinking. It was a good idea of yours to meet with the psychologist to arrange our visitation schedule/co parenting plan. Do you want me to set that up? When are you available? "
make it HIS idea, agree with him- 180 180 180! and again, do you really think the psychologist will agree to suddenly change this on the kids, especially your son who has Autism?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004